How I rediscovered my power & became the strong, confident woman I was born to be!
Hey Lovely Lady,
If your like most women I meet, your smart, kind, funny & gorgeous.
You’re constantly on the go, doing things for others & live a pretty good life, yet deep inside you have this nagging feeling that there should be more, that something’s missing.
Perhaps you don’t feel…
- Quite as happy as you should
- You continually find yourself saying I’ll be happy when … (insert lose weight, get a new relationships, and a new job, win the lottery etc..)
- Overwhelm & stress get to you far too often
- You frequently find yourself experiencing negative thoughts about yourself & others
- You constantly run around after everyone else, never making time for you
- The pain & suffering from your past just won’t let go and;
- You’re sick & tired of not living the life you know you deserve to live
If any of the above statements resonate with you, then you’re in the right place. Let me start by saying…
You are not broken, you are enough
& there’s nothing wrong with you!
Hi, I’m Naomi & I understand, because I used to be that woman.
I use to believe I wasn’t good enough, the hurt & pain from my past filled me so much with self hate, that I found myself constantly longing for more & seeking fulfilment from external sources. Alcohol, men, work, sex, exercise, junk food. You name it, I tried to use it, to fill that empty feeling deep inside.
For years I hated myself. I was angry, emotional, frustrated and lost.
You see I’d spent over 20 years of my life in abusive relationships. The first was with my step mother who would abuse me physically & psychologically almost daily. At 19, I escaped her to move in with my then boyfriend. I didn’t realise I’d left one abusive environment & walked straight into another. The cycle of abuse continued for another 11 years.
I lost my identity, my self-worth & my confidence was zero. My mental health was a mess & I didn’t know where to turn or what to do.
There I was a mental health nurse supporting and caring for patients, teaching them ways to develop positive mental health, yet deep inside I was a hot ass mess. I felt like a fraud.
It took for me to truly reach rock bottom before I finally found the courage to change.
In March 2011, my life quickly went from bad to worse.
I’d separated from my husband at the end of January, but he wouldn’t let me move out of the house, he was determined to keep me trapped until I agreed to move back to Scotland. In an attempt to make me, he made a false report to my employer & the Nursing board in Australia claiming I had stolen medication. I was investigated & on the day I went to work to plead my innocence, my beloved Nana, the women who had raised me & given me the gift of kindness & love, became seriously ill.
I tried to fly back to the UK in time, desperate to be able to tell her I loved her one last time, but she passed away whilst I was in mid-air.
My heart broke into a million pieces & yet I couldn’t grieve, I told myself I had to stay strong for my children. So I pushed my grief down & returned to Australia where, after yet another abusive night cowering in my bedroom, I found the courage & the strength to leave.
That fateful day I played happy families.
I waited until my husband left for work, put my kids in school, then forced myself to get help. I found myself in the local police station with a family protection officer, then in court pleading with the judge for a Violence Restraining Order & by night fall, in a women’s refugee with my children. That day was also the day of my Nana’s funeral.
It was the worst, most devastating day of my life.
I had hit rock bottom, my heart was broken & every inch of me felt like giving up. But that night, looking at my two children sleeping, I realised I had a choice. The choice to let my past define me, to grind me down & destroy what little sanity I had left or the choice to heal my heart from the pain of the last 20 years & transform my life.
Rock bottom had provided me with the push I so desperately needed to take a long hard look at my life & change the one thing I could control….me. I made the choice that night to pick up the pieces & become the kick ass woman I was born to be
I chose to get better & I spent the next few years using the tools & strategies I had learnt as a nurse to create my blueprint for transformation.
I would try, fail, get back up & try again until I healed my heart, mastered my self-love & turned the volume right down on those bullshit negative thoughts that kept telling me I wasn’t good enough. My past no longer defined me, I was finally me again.
If I can do it, then so can you & I want to show you how.
Please believe me when I say that I understand how you’re feeling. I know what its like to feel suffocated by overwhelm. To feel lost, alone & consumed by fear, hurt & anger. To be filled with self-doubt, nagging insecurities & stress. Wondering if you’ll ever be truly happy.
I clawed my way free from a cycle of over 20 years of abuse & discovered how to forgive my past, heal my heart & transform my life into one that makes my soul sing & brings me joy, even when times get hard.
Now, I’m on a mission to share what i’ve learned on my journey & empower women, just like you, to become the strong, beautiful woman their were born to be.
I’m the straight talking, no bullshit talking friend, who’s here to help you get to the root of your problems so you can finally rid yourself of that shitty self doubt once & for all.
I’ve got your back as we journey together towards designing a life that feels amazing. One that lights you up, that you control, that isn’t defined by your past or your fears. One that supports & inspires you each & every day to be the kick ass woman you were born to be.
So let me say welcome home & reassure you that you’re no longer alone. Take my virtual hand & join me on this journey, as we stand side by side & face our demons together.
Its time to become the kick ass woman you were born to be!
If your ready to move forward with your life & discover just how amazing you really are, then check out some the options below. I can’t wait to see you shine.
Thanks for being here & thanks for being you!